Many parents ask “Are you a cry-it-out proponent or family bed advocate?  Do I have to stop breastfeeding to sleep coach my child, do I have to choose between two camps: cosleeping/no crying or crib/cry-it-out?”


You do not have to pick a camp; this isn’t about right or wrong. It’s about what is working for you and your family.


It is true that the CIO method and the starker extinction methods can work well and a bit faster than gentler methods IF you as the parent can follow through consistently and for long enough.



Can you guarantee “no crying” you might ask?  No, no one really can. For example, if you as the parent have taught your child that the way to fall asleep is to be held to sleep for all naps, bedtime and wakings and you decide that you want to change this; your child will naturally protest or resist this change. After all, they don’t know why you have changed your approach. If your child is pre-verbal then they will cry. My goal is to have as little crying as possible. I encourage parents to be loving and responsive but to allow the child the room to learn this vital life skill of putting themselves to sleep. The parent responds and stays with their child and offers physical and verbal reassurance without putting the child to sleep. This supports the development of a secure attachment between parent and child.


I will work with you to create an individualized, step-by-step sleep plan that will factor in your parenting philosophy, your child’s age, health and temperament, mother’s well-being and the related family dynamics. And most importantly I will support and coach you through the process from beginning to end- for night sleep and naps!


If you have any questions about the Gentle Sleep philosophy, please don’t hesitate to ask. I can be reached by email at or through the contact page of this website. 


Answers to a few other commonly asked questions:


-Breastfeeding is best and it is never necessary to end breastfeeding in order to successfully sleep coach your child


-You can continue to room share while sleep coaching.


-I work with parents of children ages 4 months to 6 years old. Babies under 4 months I will consult with parents on how to set up healthy sleep habits from the start and if appropriate how to gently shape their sleep. I even offer a consultation for expectant parents and new parents to help you get off on the right foot!


The art of putting yourself to sleep is a priceless gift you can give to your child and your entire family.







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